"I understand the worry - I tend to avoid them myself for similar reasons, but the needs of a child, they will keep you grounded." Or they should have. Something he supposed was much easier if the child was near-by and depending on you, verses being raised by someone else. "But that does sound a wonderful use for it."

He returned the squeeze with an encouraging smile. "Oh course." He wouldn't guess at the topic, not yet. There were too many it could be. "Let's head over then?"